Hard to swallow but point taken. I guess that works both ways too. Should our R not work out, and somewhere down the line I meet someone else, W would have no say in that.

Right now kids are laying in the bed next to me. How I wish I could look after them every day.

So what now for me? W wants to be friendly. That's fine, it's better than fighting all the time. She's still in contact with OM. Is there anything I should do about that? I am GAL and doing things for myself, I just wonder if I should be doing anything else to aid things? I'm doing LRT, and stopping the chase seems to have stopped the damage. She seems intensely focused on her new life though. If we get on in our brief exchanges that would be good but if she's so wrapped up in texting OM and her other friends and new life in general, I don't see it helping much, except maybe to soothe any guilt she may feel (which appears to be zilch). Maybe I just need to give it time for things to pan out.


BD - 30TH JAN 2015
S - 30TH JAN 2015
PA CONFIRMED - 16TH FEB 2015 (SINCE AT LEAST OCT 2014)
CONTINUAL TALK OF D
ME: 31
W: 28
T: 10yrs
M: 4.5yrs
D:5, S:6