Thanks braveheart and Gwen, Gwen, that's what I've been doing this week. I found out the name of the councilor and tonight emailed the school to let them know I need to be kept involved in my daughters "treatment". On this front my D15 didn't come and stay with me this week because it's the week of state mandated testing. Really dumb idea put forth by politicians that don't have any idea what they are doing and something she didn't have to do at private school. This way she doesn't need to worry about getting up early and take the 33 mile ride to her school. I hate living so far from her school. But like every part of this, my W didn't care about anything but what she wanted. It boggles the mind how selfish the MLCers become even when they weren't that way before their "crisis".
My W contacted me about the IRS notice we got. She is so far not screaming bloody murder and yelling but she has started the blaming and questioning of how I didn't know this or that. Well, she didn't either. That is how she's always been, expects me to be psychic and know everything about whatever subject is causing a problem. They are her taxes too. Why didn't SHE know what was going to happen in the future? The only good thing is she is letting me do what I think best at this point and not fighting my every decision. The last few years she would just disagree with what ever I did just because.
Everyone at my office had individual meetings with the owner today. Mine went better than I expected but it really bothers me that he is the type of boss who feels like he HAS to say something negative about every employee. He can't just say "Good job people" without adding "But you should have done this sooner and it has taken you way too long to get there". It's almost like he's afraid that if he says something nice everyone will start slacking off! I really dislike that but it's his business.
I'm taking my D15 to school tomorrow. Her mother has a dentist appt and if I don't take her she'll have to walk. I haven't had to take her in in awhile since the last week she was here was spring break. It gives me a chance to see her. Her mom told me she cut herself again the other day. She did come and tell her mother after. It's like an addiction, a compulsion. They are going to try CBT over the next 90 days. I hope it helps. It really bothers me that I really believe this wouldn't have happened if not for her mothers MLC. I'm so tired of having to deal with the fall out from my W's actions. But I have no choice. All I can do is try my best to minimize the damage while at the same time deal with trying to rebuild my life and start a new career. Piece of cake!
