3kids,

You do sound good. I hope that I'm on a similar path that you had in your growth. Our WW sound very similiar (shocker) with their family's just as frustrated as we are, the kids noticing the lack of attention (mine do it in other ways since their younger)

I remember looking at your thread when I first got here and saw you were >6 minths into it and wondered how you got so far and didn't lose patience. Now I'm ther and your much further and I still feel the same way.

Just a random question that I struggle with. With all of the emotional turmoil, do you feel that WW will ever get out of this and go back to the person you knew before? You say you see less and less ability to have her back in your life. Is that because of who 'she's' become or who 'you've' become? Just curious.


M:36 W:37
T: 15 M:11
S6 D5
BD: 8/10/14
IDLY: 8/12/14
S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids)
D Mentioned: 10/15/14
Confronted about OM: 10/15/14
EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13
She filed: 8/15 (not final)