Quote: Anyway, I think society has done a big mind-f on women from the time they are little girls. I won't elaborate, but IMHO, I just think that peers, parents, religion, and the media completely destroy a woman's ownership of their sexuality with contradicting messages etc. Especially in america where flashing your tits is a sign of being sexual and "wild" and nudity is such a taboo...it's a joke.
Well put Dave36! Unfortunately, I think you're right on the money with that statement. Too many women, myself included, have been programmed to instinctively view sexuality with dirtiness, self gratification, invasiveness, shame, and degradation. Growing up female, you walk a fine line of finding a balance between being a good girl, being a fun girl-next-door, and being perceived as a slut. To top it all off the media shoves the *ideal* woman in our face as gorgeous supermodels, who tend to appear as "good girls" (and BTW it's hard for me to imagine them giving head!), and pornstars, who make alot us feel insecure, degraded and objectified...(who always seem to have a penis in their mouth!)... hopeless! Growing up trying to be the good girl it's rather challenging to find the right balance while feeling good about yourself and keeping your partner happy.
CeMar: I'm sorry for not answering your question (either!)
Unfortunately, I think you're right on the money with that statement. Too many women, myself included, have been programmed to instinctively view sexuality with dirtiness, self gratification, invasiveness, shame, and degradation. Growing up female, you walk a fine line of finding a balance between being a good girl, being a fun girl-next-door, and being perceived as a slut. To top it all off the media shoves the *ideal* woman in our face as gorgeous supermodels, who tend to appear as "good girls" (and BTW it's hard for me to imagine them giving head!), and pornstars, who make alot us feel insecure, degraded and objectified...(who always seem to have a penis in their mouth!)... hopeless! 
Growing up trying to be the good girl it's rather challenging to find the right balance while feeling good about yourself and keeping your partner happy.
