Dave36:

I love giving head to the wife, and yet there are man odors and bodies fluids involved with it. But it does not bother me. I suspect that most HD guys LOVE giving head. And yet the LD wife HATES giving BJ's now, did not used to though. It seems to be completely unfair to me. She LURED me into marriage with great sex and BJ's and now she is the complete OPPOSITE of what I thought I was getting. I personally thnk it has a lot to do with being HD versus being LD.

But back to the original subject, how would a guy ask for a BJ in a way that is acceptable. Better question yet is WHY should he even have to ask? My wife gets head all the time and NEVER has to ask for it.