I've heard women make the joke... "What's the biggest benefit of getting married?"
Answer: "No more BJs".
This is the kind of "college girl talk" that I think programs them in a way similar to hypnosis where you establish a trigger (in this case getting married) to evoke a response (in this case, hating BJs).
Why don't they like them? Here's my guess...correct me if I'm wrong gals....
1. Physically, it requires muscles in the mouth, tongue and (hopefully) hands. It can also evoke gagging and difficulty breathing if you have sinus issues. Unless you've showered in the past 15 minutes, there could be some unappealing body odors and tastes lingering too.
2. Psychologically, I heard women complain that it's 1-way without reciprocal sexual stimulation so it simply feels like "work". There's also the perception of cleanliness and fear of smelling or tasting something undesirable. There might even be some sort of psychological issue with the fact that a woman is basically "gagged" and can't communicate which to them symbolizes "intimacy" and a BJ prevents communication. Also, women might have been exposed to something unappealing during a BJ...think how eating a bad or boney fish makes you nervous the next time you are served one.
But that's just my opinion, I might be blowing it.
Anyway, I think society has done a big mind-f on women from the time they are little girls. I won't elaborate, but IMHO, I just think that peers, parents, religion, and the media completely destroy a woman's ownership of their sexuality with contradicting messages etc. Especially in america where flashing your tits is a sign of being sexual and "wild" and nudity is such a taboo...it's a joke.
Sorry I didn't answer your question about "how to ask"...maybe take a shower, cover it in chocolate, and ask for one. Then, if she says no, I'm sure your dog (no...not hairdog) will oblige.
