Guide for LBH who has a Wayward Wife

[Joe46]

I agree with the fear of her leaving. I know everytime we argued I would be the one to make up first so she would not be mad and leave. I wasn't always like that. I remember our early years together, I spoke my mind and that was it. I did not have a big conversation trying to justify my feelings. I also remember when we had a bad argument, I told her that is he was not happy, she knows where the door was. She remembers that also. I was wrong to say it and it hurt her. But I also think I was acting out of fear of her leaving and tried to control the situation.