In the meantime, I want to ask another question, especially to the men. Awhile back, I asked a similar question on one of the LBH's threads. It drew some really good answers. As a woman, it helped me understand better why they felt some of the fear they experience. With that in mind, I want to narrow it down a little more and ask why do some of the men "fear" their W getting angry? They'll do almost anything to keep her from getting into a bad mood.
For me, I was looking to do something, ANYTHING to get a positive reaction from her. Kind of like what the others are saying. I figured that if I only did things that made her happy, she'd change her mind and want to stay.