You did pursue and pushed for an answer. I can understand that. I think often when we do this, we get an answer that we don't want to hear. From what you describe, I get a picture of you pressing to know where things stand. And your H struggling to be decisive, specific and assertive...
I agree with Toots. I know when I've pushed H for an answer, I got what I didn't want to hear. It was automatically, no we aren't doing this, I'm done, etc. But, when I tried other approaches -- I didn't get the same response. The answer may still be the same, I'm just not getting it out loud, but I'm not getting it out loud....if that makes sense.
M:32,H 32 T:10, M5 BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15 Served D Papers: 10/15 Divorced: 11/15
