"I did not say divorce to cause a change. I said it cause I was done. I cannot stand the thought of hurting you but I know this is an uphill battle. I don't know that I want to fix this. I have told you that I do not want you to be confused by my intentions. My goal was to go to see if I can find that spark to help me. I hate that it came to this E and I do not want anyone hurt. I know that is not possible. One of us will be either way. Please, lets talk through the week (*our next session is Monday*)and figure this out one way or another."
What on earth am I supposed to think about that? It almost seems as if she would be relieved if I just put up the white flag, but I am not sure...
Think that she is speaking the script (of a WAS) and yes she would be happy if you put up the white flag because that would take her off the hook.
