Where to begin?

[Cherry]

I'm exactly the same- I'm a big overthinker and worrier. I'm working on that- trying to find the positive attitude I used to have.

That's all we can do.. Create our positive attitude and hopefully, God willing it will re attract them and make them realise they would be an absolute fool to abandon this person. But I think it will take some time for them to realise the changes are genuine and we aren't just having a good day, or trying to coax them back.
I love the lighthouse story in cadets welcome post.
They are all over the place, so we stay calm and cool, yet loving and fun.