You should make it clear to your kids that they should behave at the mom's as if you were there. And you will know if they don't. Layout your expectations of their behavior. You may not be with them as much but you have to be a full time parent anyway. It may require corrective actions when you see them to reinforce that you are serious.


Me:49 W:45
M:19 T:22
EA confirmed and ended 8/2014
S:19,17 D:9,5