Originally Posted By: Maybell
How can I be a good enough person hat I never have to live through something like this ever again???
From the introduction of NMMNG:

"The Nice Guy Syndrome represents a belief that if Nice Guys are "good", they will be loved, get their needs met, and live a problem-free life."

Rings a bell? If so, the whole book is about this.

M39 D6 D3 (at S)
S 2014-09
D 2016-09

"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.