I married a lousy liar. I'm paying for that a lot more than he is. How can I be a good enough person hat I never have to live through something like this ever again???
Many of us get caught up in this at some point. Uncovering the lie that if we can be "good" bad things won't happen. Bad things happen to everyone. Life is a series of events, some good, some bad, some mundane. There is no giant score board in the sky, no 3 strikes, you deserve a bad thing or 3 stars and you get a treat.
Our job is to learn how to handle all the things that come our way and be OK. As I think you or Betsey said, we learn to self-actualize.
It's all about letting-go and being OK with the present moment.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
