Every single person on this forum could post saying, "alpha, your right. Your wife is a horrible mom. Your so amazing. What's wrong with her"

Would it save your marriage? NOPE!!

Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction