Mr Bond, I ordered the books but they haven't arrived yet. I live in Europe, but the books were sent from the US. So it takes a lil while.

Ontheup, thanks for the kinds words. I'm glad everything is working out for the better for you.
I know I will get there as well. I'm just trying to be cautious by not making the wrong moves.

M 30
W 31
S8 and S6
M 7 T 13
D-Day Mid December 2014
EA/PA confirmed end of December 2014

Help needed:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2550514#Post2550514