A few weeks after BD, when I could listen to music again, I created a breakup playlist. It was full of sentimental music and I couldn't listen to anything upbeat, but I did add a few over time. I stopped listening to the playlist after about 3 months. My listening habits now have reverted to my pre-BD days.

The song that I consider my breakup song is This is the last time by The National.

I wish everybody knew
What's so great about you
Oh, but your love is such a swamp
You don't think before you jump
I said I wouldn't cry again
I guess I did


Other notable songs from the playlist.

Joey, Concrete Blonde
Mr. Brightside, The Killers
Just another girl, The Killers
Hard enough, Brandon Flowers
Heartbreak warfare, John Mayer
Who's gonna ride your wild horses, U2

Ironically, a song that we listened to a lot the previous summer was "The writing's on the wall" by OK GO (they have the best videos). It's about a guy noticing that his couple is just about done. I would shake my butt and sing along for months, clueless. I even posted the video on Facebook and I post like six times a year.

It's interesting to discover each others' personality through these musical choices.


M39 D6 D3 (at S)
S 2014-09
D 2016-09

"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.