This all sounds pretty positive to me (I'm new myself so not too great at the advise). You're doing well by focussing on you. Have you read DR? I'm reading that right now, and the positivity and the advise is fab. Your situation is quite similar to mine. We had a baby very soon and I'm thinking that h is jealous and feeling neglected by me. This is a tough tough time. I honestly believe you have this though. Wishing you the best 😊
Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16