Ok you have made zero progress on the know it all, I am better than my wife issues.
You can either be happy or be right.
It's not about just not SAYING anything to her about it, it's truly about not feeling that way anymore. Until you make progress the marriage will be doomed.
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction