Being deceived by WAW, in need of some coaching

[Ontheup]

My wife asked for "space" hahah. Obviously I know what that means now. I didn't want to move out but if I didn't she would have and financially I couldnt afford to be in marital home. The kicker is that she wanted me to move back to our other house which is about 500yrds from our marital home and where we used to live. Again my wife was trying to control what I do. I thought about this for a couple of weeks and then made the decision. No Way! If im moving out it Is on my own terms. I got legal advice made sure I was ok and got myself somewhere to rent that I wanted to live in and would work for my daughter as well.
Yes ideally I wouldn't have moved and would have forced my wife to. Consequences? well im no longer dancing to her tune. I've let her go. Im not around to do all the household stuff like i used to. I didn't give her any grand speeches about it but ive just pulled right back. Im not at this point interested in R.
There's not a slight chance she will miss you, she will definitely miss you. Of course she will. You've been together a long time, its doesn't just disappear overnight. She wont show it though so don't expect it. My wife still shows moments of missing me.
I presume my wife is still having her affair? I don't actually know and at this point I don't really care. Maybe they are destined to be together forever soul mate schmoopies (Teenage lifestyle romance)
Has your wife got one foot back in the marriage or is she just cake eating? I would say cake eating. Affair partners only feed certain needs. Usually not very many. You and family feed the rest so yeah she will want to keep it all going. How flattering 2 men fighting over her. You know what F@ck that. I, you, anyone are worth more than the scraps that get thrown our way.
You cannot control your wife. You can control yourself. If your wife wants to return to the marriage then she will do so and others on here will be able to help with what you do then. I am not nor may ever be at that point.
My point is, I have gained some self respect by quitting all the pursuing behaviour. I am not scared anymore. What can she do to me? I will be just fine on my own and at some point with someone else. I've already had female attention when ive been out which does wonders to make you feel like you are worth more.
I got tired of being kicked around. Been made to feel like I was plan B. So I removed that option.