My W and I went out clubbing last Saturday with some friends of mine. That's something we rarely did. I enjoyed her company and I think she had a fun night as well. Though I bet in the back of her mind she was comparing this experience with her nightouts with OM.
My W also acts kinda more demanding lately and sometimes speaks with a commanding tone. I don't really know how to deal with that. Is she grieving the loss of her freedom with OM?
My perspective about this whole situation is changing a little bit. In the beginning I couldn't imagine moving forward without her. I still don't want that to happen, and I still want to give it my best shot to make this work. But I guess her continous BS and her attitude is demotivating me a bit. I'm now starting to dare imagining what a future would be like without her. I don't know, should I let go of those thoughts?
M 30 W 31 S8 and S6 M 7 T 13 D-Day Mid December 2014 EA/PA confirmed end of December 2014
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