Last Saturday, met with my BIL (H’s brother) to pick up the numbers and stuff for 5K run on Sunday. Then later that day had a dinner party for my nephew b-day at my sister’s. My BIL and his GF came too. We had great food and some drinks.
On Sunday, met up with my BIL, his GF and a couple of other friends for 5K run. My son joined us at the last moment. Went to a beer garden after the run with the whole crew, and then to a pizza place after that. H was supposed to be there as well. His brother had his bib with the number. But, tough luck, H had to go make some money and could not be at the race…
Later in the afternoon, H texted. Asked “how was the run”, and then if I’m planning to be at the vacation home on Memorial Day weekend, because his nephew expressed interest of going.
I replied to the texts, and we had a bit of conversation going on about the run. He knew that I was with his brother. He went silent after one of my replies. I don’t know…. When I have the conventions like that, it feels like he picks out of the tunnel, then gets scarred and goes right back into it.
I texted him that I’m planning on being at the vacation home on the Memorial Day weekend. It is interesting that he is even asking. Not sure what he is going to do with this info. I don’t really want his nephew in the same condo while I’m there. Will see how it will play out.
And… Today, I got a text from him telling me that he transferred money for car insurance. Hahaha, I guess he could not find anything better, which I kind of expected.
Anyway, life is good for the moment. I seem to be keeping the positive attitude going:).
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state