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Re: Old Dog seeks new trick 11 claire7 #2552636 03/30/15 11:55 PM
Joined: Apr 2014 Posts: 3,500 M Maybell Member
Maybell Member M Joined: Apr 2014 Posts: 3,500	^^^^^^^^^^^ Yep. Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15 She believed she could, so she did.

Re: Old Dog seeks new trick 11 claire7 #2552637 03/30/15 11:56 PM
Joined: Jun 2014 Posts: 1,106 Merrie England O Old Dog OP Member
OP Old Dog Member O Joined: Jun 2014 Posts: 1,106 Merrie England	Right now I think what's the point, she's gone and I'm sure she won't come back even if I do become the man only a fool would leave. Maybe in the morning it'll be sunny. Sounds very stormy out there now though. M: 57 / EW: 52 T: 21, M: 8 S: 18, S: 15 Bomb: 1 Jun 14 EA Aug 2014 I think PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner

Re: Old Dog seeks new trick 11 claire7 #2552640 03/31/15 12:04 AM
Joined: Jun 2006 Posts: 943 US S Sherman333 Member
Sherman333 Member S Joined: Jun 2006 Posts: 943 US	Quote: OD - Seems like you couldn't give a flying f*** about me. I just read part of your stitch. You're feeding her ego with these lines... like you can't live without her; which isn't true. You're letting her cake eat emotionally. The point you need to focus on is getting your strength up and be a man. Try doing something simple like putting a rubber band on your wrist and every time you want to talk up, you snap it... retrain your brain. You're caught in your script of reacting. Me: 45 W43 S7, Foster S9 (Planning to adopt post divorce) D mentioned Feb 2015, Wife served 3/24/2015. She moved out 4/15/2015.

Re: Old Dog seeks new trick 11 Sherman333 #2552643 03/31/15 12:12 AM
Joined: Jun 2014 Posts: 1,106 Merrie England O Old Dog OP Member
OP Old Dog Member O Joined: Jun 2014 Posts: 1,106 Merrie England	Hey Sherman, a new voice on my thread. Thanks for taking the time to come by. I've tried the rubber band technique actually and had partial success. I had to use my last one for a bike repair so I'll have to find another. I'm a 'nice guy'. That's a big problem. I'll have to re-read NMMNG. I'm trying to get an European online group going at the NMMNG forum. And I have trouble detaching. I think it is coming but painfully slowly. Last edited by Old Dog; 03/31/15 12:15 AM. M: 57 / EW: 52 T: 21, M: 8 S: 18, S: 15 Bomb: 1 Jun 14 EA Aug 2014 I think PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner

Re: Old Dog seeks new trick 11 Old Dog #2552658 03/31/15 01:25 AM
Joined: Jun 2006 Posts: 943 US S Sherman333 Member
Sherman333 Member S Joined: Jun 2006 Posts: 943 US	Husband Haven has some good ideas too. Google it. Me: 45 W43 S7, Foster S9 (Planning to adopt post divorce) D mentioned Feb 2015, Wife served 3/24/2015. She moved out 4/15/2015.

Re: Old Dog seeks new trick 11 Sherman333 #2552698 03/31/15 05:30 AM
Joined: Jun 2014 Posts: 1,106 Merrie England O Old Dog OP Member
OP Old Dog Member O Joined: Jun 2014 Posts: 1,106 Merrie England	Thanks Sherman. I just downloaded the eBook. M: 57 / EW: 52 T: 21, M: 8 S: 18, S: 15 Bomb: 1 Jun 14 EA Aug 2014 I think PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner

Re: Old Dog seeks new trick 11 claire7 #2552702 03/31/15 07:43 AM
Joined: Oct 2014 Posts: 8,855 UK V Vanilla Member
Vanilla Member V Joined: Oct 2014 Posts: 8,855 UK	Originally Posted By: claire7 Originally Posted By: Old Dog Yeah I know Claire. I'm so bad at DBing ... still. I don't think I'll ever be able to do it. Um... try to spin that around. the only way to get better at something is to actually practice it, and for that, you have to have the emotional and intellectual strength to pick yourself up when you fail and get back at it. no one ever got good at something by giving up on it. I really like this reframing Claire. Wonderful, thank you. Pay attention OD that is three posts plus Sherman and his band. V Last edited by Vanilla; 03/31/15 07:45 AM. Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW

Re: Old Dog seeks new trick 11 claire7 #2552986 03/31/15 11:32 PM
Joined: Jun 2014 Posts: 1,106 Merrie England O Old Dog OP Member
OP Old Dog Member O Joined: Jun 2014 Posts: 1,106 Merrie England	Originally Posted By: claire7 Originally Posted By: Old Dog Yeah I know Claire. I'm so bad at DBing ... still. I don't think I'll ever be able to do it. Um... try to spin that around. the only way to get better at something is to actually practice it, and for that, you have to have the emotional and intellectual strength to pick yourself up when you fail and get back at it. no one ever got good at something by giving up on it. Yes. I tell that to the boys all the time. Time for some role modelling then. M: 57 / EW: 52 T: 21, M: 8 S: 18, S: 15 Bomb: 1 Jun 14 EA Aug 2014 I think PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner

Re: Old Dog seeks new trick 11 Old Dog #2553003 04/01/15 12:14 AM
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claire7 Member C Joined: Mar 2014 Posts: 1,428	There ya go! Show don't tell! Me 38 H 40 D 3 T 8 M 6 BD 10/2013

Re: Old Dog seeks new trick 11 claire7 #2553107 04/01/15 12:19 PM
Joined: Jun 2014 Posts: 1,106 Merrie England O Old Dog OP Member
OP Old Dog Member O Joined: Jun 2014 Posts: 1,106 Merrie England	I just got a text from WW. She's been made redundant! I replied sorry to hear that. But what now? That throws the cat among the pigeons. Last edited by Old Dog; 04/01/15 12:20 PM. M: 57 / EW: 52 T: 21, M: 8 S: 18, S: 15 Bomb: 1 Jun 14 EA Aug 2014 I think PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner

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