Should i expose the affair, or?

[Swabby]

I guess one of the things that i am fearful for, and not quite ready for yet, is filling out the paperwork for a separation or Divorce.

In some weaker moments over the past few months, i have gotten emotional, and printed out the forms for both, presenting them to her, to make it "real".

Both times are things i wish i could now take back, but its out there now, and I'm not sure how to step backwards without looking indecisive and unsure.

I know she's looking to deal with getting things filled out (she's a planner, and trying to move this fast to get out of the M and on to her R with OM), but i'm not wanting to do things that will further cause rifts and make it harder for possible R.