So here is a new story that happened last night. I got a random message from some lady who goes to beauty school with the ow. She was saying that the ow introduces him as her husband and that she has two step kids. This lady is friends with one our acquaintances so she asked her what his wife's name was and she was shocked that it wasn't the same name as the ow. This lady also told me that my h pays for all her bills and schooling too. So no wonder he has no money for us. I also found out that he lives with her and her parents and her son. I confronted him and he was so mad. I told him you want a divorce go ahead but do you think you'll get rid of me or you won't see me ever again I said think again. It's still like being married except no sex. I said if you file for divorce your going to have to split everything yes everything even that car you bought her. He was like I know I told you I'm 100 percent here for my kids I said really. And started laughing I said ya right your like only 40% here for them. Your never here when they need you or want you. After that he left. Today he called and asked about the kids. I told him they are still sick but fine. I told him I need my car back. So I went to pick it up and asked him are you coming to see the kids today and he said maybe if I get a car. I said just know that your not hurting me your hurting them. And drove away. .. ahh I'm shaking and can't believe I talked like that to him. It felt GREAT TO BE B....
Me 34 H 33 Married 2006 S5 D2 BD Jan 2015 EA/PA He moved out 2/2/2015 Came back 5/2015 Filed divorce papers 8/21/2015