I read something in another thread that I feel needs to be discussed b/c it seems common for the LBS. Some LBS are held back from making tbe decision to proceed with D papers (for example) b/c they worry the WS will think they no longer love the WS. Or the LBS feels the WS won't know the LBS still loves the WS, and therefore, should express it. (I hope I said this right.)

As I said, this comes up often. If you would care to share your thoughts, please feel free. I am curious to know why a LBS strongly feels it is important to tell the WS, and is concerned that the WS may not know.

IMHO, it is a need the LBS has to tell the WS, ILY. My first question is why do you think the WS doesn't know? Second question, why does it matter so much to you to tell the WS one more time? Third, do you believe it will cause the WS to have second thoughts, or what? And fourth, do you believe it really matters to the WS, if they are in an A and/or have filed for D?

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!