Kellam, welcome to the form. You already won the prize for the shortest opening post!

If you can tell us some more about your sitch, we'll do our best to help. There are some great people on the forum. Some of us just groping our way along, and others who are wise indeed.

Keep posting. You'll get lots of support and advice here.

Toots :-)


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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus