Bets,

Originally Posted By: Underdog

The one thing I can say with absolute certainty and gratitude? My XH was the key player in moving me out of my fog and into the light. Without his bomb, I doubt I would have progressed as far. I'm truly grateful that he helped me along in my own growth.

It's the old saying... adapt or die? Survival of the fittest at its best!


Ditto. Occasionally I will mutter a silent "thank you" to Ms. Wonka before going to bed for the tremendous personal (and spiritual) growth this lesson has presented to me.

Absolu-freakin'-ly spot on. We've survived and THRIVED, baby!