I am furious and disgusted right now. I can never be with this man again.
'Our' best friends - just got a report that H acted a real spook and stopped by their house with his familiar line - do you have any questions, can I help you out with anything?
He apologized to them about our D, "I'm sorry to tell you we're getting a divorce" because "I know you put a lot into our R" - spent a lot of time feeling out what I had already told them - though they would barely look at him. She said that's like apologizing to someone else for your own mother dying. He was creepy because he expressed no remorse, regret, sadness, nothing about any feelings he was having.
Minimized the catalyst violence.
A lot of image management.
And he asked them if I was cheating on him.
WTF.
My friend, who was closer to him than any of the rest, she has now determined him a non-violent psychopath. Said the way he is handling people is beyond creepy and 'off' considering a normal human response to the end of their marriage. They just felt he was baiting them the whole time.
Grossed out over here.
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
