I agree with Twin. You need to get the right balance with the responding. Don't make it into a power struggle and be a dork about it. All you are doing is leading a busy life, and you aren't always glued to your phone.

But I agree, the kids are all important. And if you have had a call - you can always drop your W a quick text to see what she wanted.

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus