RD, it's kind of you to say that. It has been bothering me - but it is true, I was a loving, loyal and faithful wife which counts for a lot. There are always things I can do better, and I do feel I have come a long way in terms of understanding relationships, communication and so on. I shan't go out and buy those lace up thigh boots then!

Quietish day for me. I did some work from home and visited my Mum in respite care this afternoon. She seemed happy and the staff there are lovely. Tomorrow I'm working away, so that will be a busy one. We're having lunch out as someone is leaving. I was offered some more work yesterday by another old boss, which I had to turn down - but it's nice to get the offers!

All quiet from H and I'm thinking I will probably just leave it. I thought about dropping him a text about something else. But it isn't really needed, and would just be pursuit on my part - just trying to remind him, or poke the bear as Wonka would say...."I'm here H, and you haven't come back to me on that little matter of whether we are going to D or not!"

Other than that, just the usual things this week - yoga GAL, bookstore GAL and so on. Next week I plan to go to my first Ceroc class after the workshop this weekend. Some people that I met already go to that class, so hopefully there will be familiar faces. Incidentally, a few people have already mentioned Ceroc, and I really do recommend it as a good GAL activity. There is a friendly culture, and they are so welcoming and encouraging to beginners. It's a good way of meeting people of both genders in a relaxed environment. And it's world wide from what I could see....

Hope you're all having a good start to the week :-)

Last edited by Toots; 03/30/15 05:46 PM.
T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus