It seems to me like whenever the swinging gets brought up no one want to touch my posts with a ten-foot pole. lol
Why assume that you are judged? A lot of posts go unanswered on these boards. The brain tends to look for patterns (I'm sure Raliced-the-statistician would agree) where there are none because the want to see them. It might be interesting to explore why you see this pattern. I personally don't comment on the swinging because I've no experience with it and no judgement against it either. So I read and learn, but I don't judge.
My ears were burning. Miman- I looked over your thread and I assure you, that you actually get more responses that most people who are so early into their sitch. I'm with Mozza - the swinging thing is outside my realm of experience so it's hard to weigh in. Frankly, that's why I comment much less frequently on the posts of LBHs. We all have are similarities - but its always a little harder to qrasp my head around a situation where a woman broke up her family (because that just seems so foreign to me). Keep posting and keep asking questions and you will continue to get responses.
