Instead of working on yourself, to see how you can enjoy life with what you have, you want to run.
Dispose and start fresh. This is all external oriented. The consequences of a throw away society. Get rid of the situation is far easier than looking inward to see what hidden issues may lie dormant.
DB essentially is about working on yourself (GAL). Letting go of the external things you cannot control (DETACH), and realizing that you are responsible for your happiness, not the situation (STOP FOCUSSING ON THE EXTERNAL).
My advice to you is to Detach and GAL. Start looking inward to see what is the cause of your dissatisfaction.
What do you want? What activities do you want to make time for? Job? Career? Start the bucket list and start here. Let him do the housework while you go out and do your GAL. You don't need his support or permission.
Here's a possible conclusion. If you have worked on your life and feeling great, the confusion of what you need to do next will be far clearer.