hold on! - 8

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Thanks Toots
I think I have been around here for a long time and do know the answers to many of my questions - I know shes just throwing everything at me that she thinks will work. I am trying not to be affected by it. She wants everything status quo.

The thing about wanting to rent the condo - it's not that she wants to - it is me forcing it. She is saying that this is all about me now, giving me what I want. I have asked her to leave a couple times and she says she is giving that to me. I think she will not go and will try other forms of manipulation (kids, visitation, money, her legal troubles, my failures) to push this off. I think this is where the MC offer is coming from.

Her claim is she is not involved with OM, but I feel differently - her stories make no sense, she is not doing any work to prove this to me. I still feel that it is something she is hiding.

If she were to leave I would just watch her go and get on with things. As things are right now, we are still too intertwined.