Is it really to late? Who knows....

[mahhhty]

Lost -
The phone & the OW is a constant topic for you and point of struggle. You have convinced yourself that there is an OW, and substantiated some of that with snooping from January and before. I think it is important for you to come to terms with the idea that you could be wrong, and that perhaps there is no other woman, or at least anymore.

Have you ever had a calm rationale conversation with him about it?