Also, another Q I have.. Is it normal for a wayward h to be as if he has had a personality transplant? It's like he wants to throw everything away and start a fresh.. Obsession with a new car.. Throw out clothes and get new ones. His mum he's always been v close with- he barely speaks to. He always wanted to be a dad, and now is never home. A games console he wanted for years- he got and now is unused as he doesn't wanna sit around at home. Tv shows he was obsessed with watching- now he has no time for, again as he doesn't wanna sit around - he wants to be out. Food he has always liked, he suddenly says "I've never liked" which I know is complete BS..

I just wanna know if this is script behaviour? I know not to read into things and that I can only control me.. But I just wanna know what I'm up against and if this is normal or this is something else he's going through?

Me 26 H 25
M 4
T 5
Baby born 4/14
BD: 1/15
EA: 2/15
PA: 4/15
reconciling: 4/15
ILYBINILWY- 11/15
ILY-1/16
ILYBNILWY 4/16
ILY 6/16
ILYBINILWY 6/16
Baby due 3/17
BD 8/16