Jb i went to your thread to quote your post and respond, and noticed that there were unanswered posts from MrB, the vet who gets to the heart of the issue with directness and deep questions. I am very interested in your answers. Clearly there are issues on abuse that directly affect you and we can chat about those if you would like.
Peace V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW