Sorry fat finger syndrome, wifi keeps logging me out so I lose my post!
Your M is over for you when you say. If you want out, truly decided this, keep your power and act in your time and how you want too. If H moves first decide on your next action. many here say " I will not D you or help you and I am not standing in your way". This action is for Z when she decides for herself it is time and to further Z in her life. In my opinion it is not a tool to wake up H, that would be control again. If it has that effect so be it. I have drafted my D papers and they are with my L where there is no chance H may accidentally see them. Other than here, my IC, L and Gamanon group no one knows, so it is confidential to me. When I am ready I will file and it makes me secure to know this. I have changed my will, pensions beneficiaries and power of attorney. I mean business. In a set period then I will move to change.
Confidentiality in your fins and keep your strategy secure.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW