Joe

Finding things to do with the kids is detaching. It is letting go of WW joining you and letting her do her stuff.

Go with the kids to the weekender, have fun, if WW decides to go then ok, if not her loss. You guys have fun on D11 birthday. No fretting just decide and go.

"WW I have booked the weekender, it's fun for the kids, if you want to come along let me know , no hassle".

That is detatched, if she comes ok and if she does not ok. Detatched from the outcome, let W decide for W. You and the kids will have a great time, if anyone asks then "sadly WW has to work but hey it's great here and D11 is enjoying her birthday." Go have a terrific time and whilst you are there WW is losing out, be sad for that but detatched.

V

Last edited by Vanilla; 03/30/15 08:18 AM.
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