So, I see you are asking all of the questions that I have over the last 7 months. Here's the crux of it, it's not linear. She's still acting on how she feels at the moment. This is still something she needs to work through. For you, the biggest thing is to stay consistent. This is easier said than done and I have struggled with it.
For me, the A never seemed to pan out for WW, it never went public, he never left his GF, but all this time later I see only little signs from WW. I think she's still pursuing him or at least feels like she's still attached to him.IDK, but I can say since Oct. ive had 2 to 3 times I thought she was interested in R just to have her pull way back when it started to get "tough."
It's a roller coaster but hang in there. I see a lot of mind reading and making excuses for her. It's still her journey. SHE needs to make the steps to get back in. You pushing them will not have good outcomes. I know, I struggle just like you.
Appreciate everything, but expect nothing.
Last edited by MCS; 03/30/1503:08 AM.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
