I haven't caught up on the entire thread, so excuse me if you covered this already. You are aware that once an A is over, it takes time to rebuild the trust AND to get over the A, right?
Her wanting to go to counselling is a sign she isn't done trying. Apathy if the opposite of love and sometimes commitment is all there is for a while.
Maybe step back and take stock of what the situation is. What it is you want. How you see things getting there.
Just a thought.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
