My boys really can't stand ow and she has outwardly voiced her dislike for them too. It has resulted in a her or us situation given by the boys which has put even more pressure on my h to keep things together. H told them that they are his priority and they are now saying "prove it". Your kids will make up their own minds - don't defend or slander your h actions or ow to them, it is for them to decide and your h to sort out. Your kids will remember how supportive and loving you are with them, that is what counts in all this - your actions.
Ow is the complete opposite of me - everything he does not like in a women - I suppose he thinks that if I was not "his one" then going for someone like me would achieve nothing. She is already starting to irritate him and they have only been living together a few months - vge, I am sure your h will find the same; that the grass is not greener - your marriage was based on love and history, his new relationship is based on lies and a false blinkered reality; how can it possibly last?
My h life is already falling apart, he has not found what he was looking for, he is unhappy and that is across the whole of his life (although he won't admit it) - his hates his new job, his relationship is not what he hoped it would be, he is in debt and he is losing his sons.
Everything will turn out as it should; whatever that may be.
Concentrate on getting yourself well again, strength and courage is on your side - and you are one gutsy lady vge.
