I'm going to do what i seem to do so often and thats follow Toots around and just agree with her (she's right again)
I can't imagine how hard it must be to watch your H behave as he is and I know that the love you have for him probably makes you wish you could help him (fix him???), but you must remember that he is choosing this and although he may not see it the solution to his problems is obvious but its up to him to take it(you can lead a horse to water and all that)
You'll need to be strong to give yourself the space you need but your more than capable of it.
(((Pink)))
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
