I have spoken with lawyer but not yet retained him. I sent W an email asking for an indefinite extension on my response to her petition for dissolution. I only have 30 days from date of service to file response, or her demands are approved as default. If she does not give me an extension, I will retain L and go that route. I will try to drag things out, but not sure how feasible that is in California since there is already a 6 month waiting period. I don't want to lawyer up because the end result will still be 50/50, but it all depends on her response.
Me M51 WW F46 T 17 yrs M 16 yrs 9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17 8 grandchildren ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14 I discover PA 12/31/14 She files D: 1/9/15 She moves out 3/2/15 D papers served 3/18/15