. Would your W like if an ex lover of yours popped by each day just to grab a coffee or say hello?
Her beliefs from the past were "married only once" and "no affairs," those have, oddly enough, changed with this situation. When she mentioned the whole "I wish you would have an affair..." line, I responded with "My family values would not allow for that to happen."
Originally Posted By: alpha99
I would say carry on the path you're heading down. Most importantly, keep your cool. What are you doing to GAL?
Can do and will. The actions seem to get her attention pretty well, though she feels like they are controlling and vindictive. I do not want to bring up the keylogger, but it really is the only true proof I have, but I feel it could cause a lot of problems legally if it gets to that point.
To GAL, I hang out with my son and/or dog, play soccer a couple nights a week, and hang out with friends a few times a week. I do enjoy my work too, and my W does seem rather envious of that at times. I have been a little lazy with getting out on the weekends recently as W would like someone to watch S3 so she can do homework. Maybe just let her see the difficulty of balancing both? Should get back to weekend hangs out regardless.
