Hi Hurt - I don't think sending texts like that is a good idea. Her thinking you are moving forwards without her is what you are aiming for. Dropping her little texts confirm that you are thinking of her and don't achieve that aim.

Remember, you have been fired as her spouse. If you were fired from a job, would you hang around in reception, hoping they might offer the job back to you? No way - you'd be out there making plans for the next exciting step in your career...

Every time you feel like texting your W, why not pick someone else to contact and drop them a text to let them know you're thinking about them....

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