Every one of us who are standing for what's right.
OD, just a quick observation. Could the above viewpoint be holding you back? To say that standing is right the right thing to do, suggests that it would be wrong not to stand. Maybe the reason why this soooo affects you still is because you are battling your own morals?
In my case, I am standing for what I want (to be married to H). There is a lot less anxiety in that position (have to confess though that IDK if there is an OW...but very plausible).
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014
