U-turn, I think you know the answers to your own questions already here.
Your W sounds like she is trying to draw you back in - into a trip, into MC. And if you allow yourself to get drawn in again that way - you'll be off around the loop again.
Because your W is still foggy and still involved with OM, and still hasn't done the work and so on. FWIW, I think holding firm is the line to take here, and if your W wants to go and rent a condo - great...
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
