We love our H even if this is damaging to us. We allow them to use our goodwill as they please and we end up with less respect for them and for ourselves.
Pink when you love yourself more than you love H this will stop. I am sure if Pink considers her needs before any others then you can say no to a man for whom you are plan B. No, non, nien, nilch, nada, zippo, nah, and zero, whatever the language this can be the result.
Eventually one day this will be the case. OW is unimportant in the end it will be over with H. She will move on, nasty creature.
I really want to see Pink let go of her expectations of R with H, to examine things coolly and calmly without anticipation. To know that if she says "no" and means "no" there is more likelihood that H will respect her.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
