I am where you are Kramer. My W has filed for D. She has no interest in counseling or reconciliation. I suspected an A at one point but every end goes dead so I don't think it is that. She is a very hardheaded woman who just wants to prove to everyone that she can do everything on her own.

I like you don't want a D, but I don't think I can get her back since I am battling against her will to prove the world wrong. I need to start letting go also, but I can't even think of the thought that once I close the door she changes her mind and I already moved on.


Me: 36
W: 36
D: 14
T: 18 (05/1997)
M: 16 (05/1999)
BD: 7/23/15
Separation 01/2015
D mentioned and started 02/2015
D filed 3/2015
OM confirmed 3/30/15